The conflict of belonging

“there is no right and wrong, just true and false.”

Conflict comes from forcing oneself into something that isn’t compatible with our true self. Forcing ourselves into societal accepted norms. Into a religion etc… Don’t look for a group to belong to and then adjust to what that group wants you to be. Find who you are and then the right group that is compatible with your true self will find you. There is no right or wrong just true and false.

The worst part about joining a group that isn’t compatible with your true self, is that you end up jeopardizing the integrity of the group. E.g. a person who decides to be a Christian who knows they still plan to do unchristian like things, only ends up portraying a bad image of the group.

If you know you’re not cut out for something, don’t force it. Your tribe will come. It’ll be natural. You won’t have to adjust to the group because the people in the group will be just–like–you.

Don’t be pressured into groups and moral standards by the masses. Be true to the most important person in your life. YOU.

“One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself”. –Shannon L. Alder

Positive vibes for positive minds.

Love you all.

Author: Alfred

Sometimes a student, sometimes a teacher always an observer--of life. I am just a man on a mission to make a difference in someone's life like a difference was made in mine. Paying it forward. positive vibes for positive minds. I post weekly. 😃

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